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What Age Should Children Have Social Media Accounts?

Deciding how much freedom you should give your children online is difficult. As kids age and their friends access social media, they’ll almost certainly begin asking to join themselves. Many security concerns exist about letting your kids join social media early. So precisely what age should you allow your kids to join sites like Facebook, TikTok, and Twitter? Below is what you need to know about social media age limits.

What Do Social Media Sites Say?

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Facebook says they won’t allow anyone under 13 to create a profile. | Source: Facebook

Most social media websites have specific age limits. Twitter, Facebook, TikTok, and many others require that users be at least 13 years old before making an account. If these sites discover that someone under that age is using the service, they will likely have their account banned. So is 13 the right age? Not necessarily. Social media can be filled with some pretty adult content. From pornography to hate speech and potentially abusive users. There are plenty of reasons why you might want to keep your kids off of these sites for a while longer.

What do Psychologists Say?

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There are entire books about how social media can affect children. | Source: Amazon

Depending on which psychologist you ask, there are varying answers about the ‘right’ age to join social media. According to Dr. Lisa Strohman, psychologist and author of ‘Unplug: Raising Kids in a Technology-Addicted Age,’ kids under 11 are certainly too young.

At ages 7 to 11, children are still thinking very concretely, and they haven’t yet developed the ability to consider hypothetical situations.

Dr. Kristy Goodwin, a public speaker on the issue of how technology affects children, says that 13 is the absolute minimum age that any child should be on social media.

It’s difficult to prescribe a precise age limit as kids need to have social and emotional skills to cope with the demands of social media. For some kids, this is 13 years, and for other kids, it maybe 15 years. We also need to adhere to the legal age requirements because if we tell our kids, it’s okay to set up an account before they’re 13 years of age, we’re sending them a powerful message that it’s okay to break the law and that’s a difficult moral position to come back from.

There is No One-Size-Fits-All Answer

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Cyberbullying is an excellent incentive to ensure your kids are ready for social media accounts. | National Bullying Helpline

Truthfully, deciding what age your kids should start using social media should be down to the individual. Each child is different, so the period they’re ready for social media is also different. There are outside factors at play as well. When your kid’s friends are all using Facebook, denying it to your child can be difficult. They’ll feel out of the loop and could become isolated from their friend group if they don’t join in.

However, joining social media can lead to some problems. Exposure to mature material at too young can damage your child’s development. The connectivity of social media also leaves them open to cyberbullying. While it might not sound too bad, cyberbullying has caused teenagers to take their own lives. Ensuring your kid is safe is any parent’s number one priority.

Regulate Their Social Media Usage

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Google’s Family Link is the most straightforward and efficient method of monitoring your family’s activities online. | Source: W.S.Worrall

You must have some control over how much your kids are using social media. When they first start using it, they should be relegated to only a few hours daily. Any longer than that can seriously impair emotional and social intelligence. While it can be tempting to say that your child isn’t ready for social media, it can be beneficial to both you and your child that you regulate their time with, rather than banning it outright.

Don’t Just Let Your Kids Use Social Media, Teach Them To

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Our guide to teaching your kid safe online participation can help prepare them for their first social media account. | Source: Hacked

How well they’ll use it is vital in choosing when to let your kids onto social media. Your child should understand the dangers and learn how to act appropriately online. Impress upon them that each person using these sites is a real person. They can be damaged and hurt by what you say and post. That way, they’re less likely to cause damage to others themselves. It’s also vital to ensure kids know that online people might try to get them to join a group or change their thoughts. It’s all too easy for extremist groups to influence kids and teenagers who aren’t well educated on the dangers these groups pose.

The most important lesson you can teach your children is the proper use of safety and privacy features. Ensure they can turn on features like 2FA and set their accounts to private. That way, they can still use social media to connect with their friends without being at such a massive risk from strangers. You should also teach them not to post their information anywhere online. If you’re stuck, you can use our guide on what to teach your kids for safe online participation.

If you’re struggling with letting your kids on social media, contact us; we can help.

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